Were You Ostracized?

Sometimes a person you may know comes to "get it in for you". If they are a friend,they MAY forgive you. But if they were a NARCISSISTIC "friend", they have waited perhaps YEARS for this lifetime of REVENGE Excuse. You ...faithful are the wounds of a true friend. You forgive your friend,,,sometimes because they ARE your friend...sometimes because you just do not hold grudges. A NARSISSISTIC person will slander you to all your acquaintances and friends, telling them you cannot keep secrets, you are despicable for one reason or another, etc. If they THINK you despise gays...they may tell people YOU are gay. They may spend the rest of their lives trying to give YOU PAIN either mentally or physically. Also called TOXIC, the NARCISSIST will take advantage of everything you say or do to TRY to hurt you in some way. Then the grinning GLOAT will be to themselves mostly. If inlaws are involved they may tell the inlaws that THEY are out of the WILL or not getting LOANS should they even SPEAK to YOU! Then they will be as nice as possible to OVERFEED YOU, say things to turn your spouse against you, etc. I would mention some PRANKS I've sustained, survived...but I do not want to give anyone IDEAS. If the NARCISSIST you cannot flee from PRANKS YOU, DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE the fact that YOU KNOW WHAT they did to you. Just act like NOTHING happened. Otherwise, EXPECT DAILY "PRANKS"....more backstabbing, etc. You can PRAY for them....but DO NOT APOLOGIZE because this ENCOURAGES THEM. You cannot help them overcome being a NARCISSIST. This person will manipulate YOUR SPOUSE in every way possible to SPITE YOU. The NARSSISSIST will endeavor to indebt your spouse with gardening, spending lots of money on the house, etc. Do you NEED lawn furniture? The NARCISSIST will decide your spouse needs to BUY it and WILL buy it...Should YOU complain about all the FREE MEALS the NARCISSIST wants for the narcissist and spouse, your spouse may NOT do it in front of YOU but will even LIE to spend money treating the manipulator to meal after meal.